Six months ago, Glenn and I got married in a casual and intimate ceremony. Close friends of mine would know that I’m a private person who tend not to disclose too much of my life, which is ironic, considering the too-personal Instagram content that shows up on my feed from time to time. It probably came […]
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I have an ectomorph body type, defined by a “delicate” frame with small shoulders and a flat chest. Gaining weight can be challenging since I have a fast metabolism, another common trait of this body type. Although this sounds like a dream for those who put on weight simply by smelling cheese and chocolate, body […]
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Many years ago, I dated a guy for about 18 months before I ended it. He was given a great opportunity that would further his career except this role would require him to move interstate. Instead of being supportive and seeing it as a test for our relationship, I decided that “long-distance is the wrong […]
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Planning a gay wedding can go either way – your adept skills make sure everything falls into place or you divorce your future husband even before the big day arrives, very much the same way you might say “adios” after travelling as a couple for the first time. Glenn and I got married two months […]
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When Instagram launched its “Ask a question” functionality, the most common question I saw asked of a gay guy was “are you top or bottom?” While it’s puzzling why anyone feels that they have the right to know what someone does behind closed doors – and let’s remember Instagram ISN’T Grindr – it’s also interesting […]
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Living in a heterogeneous place like Australia, I’ve been fortunate enough not to have experienced racism. The case is, however, different as a gay Asian men. Sure, I’ve had my share of hook up challenges – the typical “no physical attraction” or none of that “Zsa Zsa Zsu” feels as Carrie Bradshaw famously called it. […]
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